Fertility over 40
4 Jul
I couldn’t agree more with this article I read by Charlotte Metcalf about older women getting pregnant naturally. At the clinic we see many women over 40 who have had unsuccessful IVF cycles, but then go on to get pregnant naturally having been told to give up as it will never happen. The focus tends to be on negatives, frightening low statistics and medical mechanics. There are so many factors that need to be considered, not just age.
Focus needs to be put on lifestyle, diet and nutrition, stress reduction techniques, emotional and psychological support, and looking at a woman’s mind set. We are always thrilled to get a phone call to say ‘I can’t believe it, I’m pregnant! It’s a miracle!’ Older women are faced with so many negatives about their age and statistics on miscarriage once they get pregnant, leaving them very anxious as a result.
A woman needs to feel that she is doing everything she can to have her own genetic child.
Things you can do to help:
1.At our clinic, we find the biggest factor in older women is lack of sex. They stop having sex because they are told getting pregnant will never happen. It is important to keep trying. Cycles can become more irregular so it may be harder to pinpoint a fertile window. That window of six days is still the same length whether you are age 30 or 40 it is the daily chances of conception that are reduced with age. .
2.Can egg quality be improved? You can improve the environment the eggs are developing in. The older you are, the more profound. The aging process on cells causes free radical damage so boosting your diet with antioxidant rich foods as well as taking antioxidants like my Vitafem Boost can help.
3.Exercise to get your blood flow going. Many women we see have stopped exercising as they are trying for a baby, and some have started to put on weight as a result. Weight can affect fertility, so losing the excess can help.
4.We use a lot of acupuncture at the clinic to help with blood flow. There are many studies that show this helps by reducing stress and boosting the circulation.
5. The mind set of women who have been faced with many negative messages from voices of authority is very depleting. Positive visualisation and hypnotherapy can help them cope and feel more positive.
6.Make sure you are aware of any underlying medical issues that need addressing. Have tests to check if you are anemic, if your thyroid is normal, to check for infections and to check any immune factors (although this remains quite a controversial area). We tell women that they have to feel they have ticked all the boxes to have their own genetic child before moving on.
